Girl & Star Fish !!!

Whenever tide reaches the shore, it carries few star fish along with it. Many star fishes could be noticed lying on the shore. If they are not taken back by next tide, their life ends. Almost life of a girl is comparable to a star fish !!!

We Indians call our country as women, we denote almost as women and at a same time, we almost ignore women to a core. Fact says that not more than 50% of women completes their high school.

Till date, child marriage exists in many villages. No stringent measures are in place to control this.

I have read in my school days that, educating a women is equal to educating a family. Its very true.

If a women learns, it restricts the women to get married at-least till she completes her education. Even after marriage, if she is ill treated - she could handle the family with her own education skills. She could also educate her child.

Thereby she spreads the light of education. Most importantly, she will be able to stop a girl from becoming a victim. The cycle continues...

I have heard a story of a star fish. A girl stands on the shore and she throws the star fish back into the sea. A person came to her and asked, "Can you save all the star fish by this !? What big difference you could make !?"

The young girl simply picked up another star fish, threwed it back into sea and said - "I made difference to this single star fish."

This is the correlation between a girl and star fish. Never think that by helping a single girl, how will things change. Think that you have entirely reversed the life of a single girl.

Women contribute more than 60% of Indian workforce but not more than 5% of properties are registered in their name !!!

Let us respect our mother. If she is unaware of certain things, lets educate them.

Generally women are proved to be expert in questioning skills. Lets try to answer their question with patience. Lets spread the light of education and awareness.

Believe or not - I just educated a day to my mom about Anna Hazare ji and the next day, entire colony was aware about this person. This is the power of a women. They also grasp to the best and transmit it to the best.

As per our Ex- President's word, help India achieve 20-20 faster !!!

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The inbuilt complex !!!

The main problem that every young boys and girls face is friends of opposite sex. Some feel it has prestige / esteem, some feel it as compulsion, some feel it as pressure and some feel it is even the meaning of life !!!

Okay. Where does the word complex come from !?!? How it is related to this post !?!? That is what we are to deal in detail.

Suppose a guy is talking with a girl on a road. He might one of these two feelings.

1. He never cares about others. He want to spend considerable time with her. He enjoys others seeing him.
2. He cares more on society. He puts himself under pressure in this situation.

Other guys who see this scenario may act in one of these two ways.

1. He may remain silent, but may feel jealous / develop a inferiority complex inside.
2. He may just openly comment / think about his pair and silently move away.

Now complex arises here. A guy who sees the couple starts comparing himself with them. For example, consider the guy is of dark complexion and the girl is extremely good. He starts comparing himself with that guy. In what way I lag from him. Why I didn't get a girl !??!?

This creates a sort of inferiority complex. It becomes too big that he even start doubting the brothers and sisters standing on the road.

Another case is also possible. The guy who has girl friend develop a superiority complex in him. He starts treating himself as hero. Treating self as hero is nothing wrong, but he also begin to underestimate others.

The third worst possible case is the situation of person who cares more about the public. He puts himself under pressure, because of which he might not be good in dealing with relationship with the girl. This may probably break up their relationship or make girl feel that he cares least about her. This creates extra stress on that guy resulting in loss of relationship and also loss of personal image.

Note: All these applies for girls also.

Now what is the solution for all these problems !?!?

The most simple and practical solution is - treat girls and boys equally. Allow boys and girls to share their ideas freely. The best solution for this problem will be mutual understanding between boys and girls.

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Do and Say !!!

Does India lack in talent ?!!? Not at all. But what is stopping us from reaching heights !??! In this post we are to discuss certain aspects which makes us unique from developed nations.

Recently I met a foreigner. We attended a course together. In the due course, he asked me about my qualification. I said as electrical engineer. He then asked me, can you fix this air conditioner ?!? I had no answers left with me.

He told, we don't have electrical engineers in our country. We have electrician for respective machine / equipment. If a person fixes AC, we call him AC electrician or mechanic.

This ignited me a thought - indeed this is where we lag.

India has a set of people (Engineers / Diploma graduates) who have strong theoretical background. We also have a huge workforce who could do any job easily.

The problem here is, the person who is strong in theory is weak in practical and the person who can work cannot explain.

In foreign countries, they try to balance this. Being a electric engineer I would like to share a fact to you. I cannot touch any electrical appliance without state wire man license.

And only 1 - 2% of electrical engineers in India have wire man license. This is where we stand.

One more shocking fact is that we have more number of fake universities here. These universities issue certificates for nothing. And many people on site get their degree only through these universities.

Now what is the solution for this problem !??! People on site should be made to think / understand what they actually do. Unless they understand the purpose or theory behind their work - they may not be successful in repeating it.

Engineers shall come out of their office and put on their efforts to learn reality. There is always a term called "Practicality" which deviates lightly from theory.

Unless this happens, we might not be able to reach the heights. Let us light the candle of literacy among layman workers and let us also learn the art of working from them.

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Tradition Vs Modern !!!

Where ever I go, I hear this word - Girls have changed a lot. They used to wear traditional sarees, but now they roam around wearing jeans. The situation is getting worse, blaw blaw blaw. But one simple question, does guys stick to their tradition !?!?

I have read in my primary school that keep your hand clean before pointing out a dirt.

I being a guy cannot blame any girl because I am not following my traditional dress. My job and work environment may not be comfortable if I stick to traditional wear.

Girls wearing modern dress - Is it wrong !?!? If you ask me, The question itself is wrong. Any dress that makes you comfortable is the advisable dress. If I am comfortable wearing a jeans, nothing bad in wearing it. I cannot keep worrying whether my neighbour will mistake me or not. I just need a dress which makes me feel comfortable.

But there is a group which makes themselves uncomfortable by wearing modern dress. If you opt for your dress by choice - then it is great. But if you prefer modern dress only because your friends wear it, then change yourself.

The main problem with us is we upgrade from western world but we also mix our innovations. Only in India, mistakes become a fashion.

The concept of wearing tight t shirt and low hip pants have this history.

I would like to remind guys a point - How many of us wear dhoti and shirt (khadar) ?!?! Only on certain occasions and festive times we prefer these dresses. Almost every girl stick to this formula.

What is wrong in this ?!!? I have never seen a father advising his son when he prefers low hip pant. But if his daughter prefer jeans pant, she has to hear a hour full of lecture. Why this partiality ?!!? Probably this partiality is going to create a barrier in their heart.

Society also has the same view. A guy is given all sorts of freedom, but never a girl - in case of dressing.

Trivia - Men fairness creams and cosmetics have more market than female cosmetics.

Every thing lie in the eye of the viewer. Research says that saree and dhoti are the world's sexiest costumes - since they are the rarest of costumes which have no button or zip on them.

Live for your heart. Never comment others. In this modern world - our needs and demands may force us to break some culture or tradition. Do remember, we made these cultures and tradition. And these cultures and traditions are always bound to be renewed or broken.

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A reason to Celebrate !!!

Happy New Year wishes to all our blog readers. Hope everyone of you had a great new year celebration. In this post I would like to share few interesting incidents I faced during new year celebration.

Let it be any celebration, I just see it as an opportunity to celebrate. While celebrating, we people throw away all our worries, ego, status and become kids. This is a fact.

When they dance and sing together, the Ego between them vanishes. It gives a possibility for friendly interaction. It gives an opportunity to display your talents and understand others talent.


Scholars have rightly said that World is a stage on which we people act. Its true. 99% of us act, we don't live. We live the life what others will accept. We fear to live the life we like. Many movies have this as a punch line. Hero generally used to say that I live as my heart says - but many times it becomes cinematic.

We restrict ourself by wearing a mask of etiquette and decency. We start thinking about others thinking towards us. This is were most of the problem come. The person doesn't really posses the character which he appears to posses.

There are another category of people who refuses to throw away the mask even during celebration times. They maintain their ego and status. These type of people suffer problems related to health.

In north India, majority of states have a festival where they become kid. I feel this is missing in south India. Dhandiya function in Gujarat, Holi all over North India, Ganesh Chaturthi in Maharastra makes people feel light.

The actual reason behind these celebrations are these reduces blood pressure to great extent. It is 100 times better than watching a movie or having a snacks.

My sincere request to all people is to just relax yourself in between works. Your job is more important, You need to earn for your family - accepted. But never forget to take care of you. Spend considerable time for yourself. Enjoy with your loved ones.

We people take time for us during our college days or young life, but as days pass on we change our approach to life. We engage ourselves to the worries and problems present in front of us. Lets resist the change in our life style. Let us spend at least a glimpse of time for ourselves.

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